Take care of your kids!!!!!!

In the beginning it's all ahhhhhhh's and moans......the sky is all blue....grass all green and the sound of their name is like music to your ears....then it's the I think I'm pregnant conversation followed by a moment of silence.....Then he speaks....I will be here for you and my baby....I'm so happy blah blah blah......fast forward the baby is here and the drama begins......I just don't understand why two grown people who created this life anyway have to go to court just so a judge can then order child support.....I mean if you are hungry you feed yourself don't you?....so why do thousands of men have to be told excuse me...ordered to take care of their kids?.....Now you have the order and guess what they dont pay a dime.....I mean do they think the kids live on air?...you have got to be kidding me......someone took care of thier a double s so why do some men find it so hard to take care of thier own...........Will this madness ever stop?.........